USD Magazine Spring 2006

February 1 ICONS USD’s Founders Gallery presents “ICONS from the Timken Museum of Art,” an exhibition of Russian Icons dating from the 16th through the 19th centuries. Through Feb. 25. Noon-4 p.m., Tuesday-Saturday, open until 6 p.m. on Thursdays. Call (619) 260-4261. SAVE T H E D A T E The annual service opens the spring semester with a celebra- tion of the diverse faiths and tra- ditions represented at the univer- sity. This year’s theme is “Unifying a Divided World.” Noon, The Immaculata. Call (619) 260-4735 or e-mail svasquez@sandiego.edu. March 24 Women in Leadership Conference USD’s Leadership Institute for Entrepreneurs sponsors this annual conference dedicated to providing insight, learning and structured networking to help women on their journeys of self- exploration and leadership devel- opment. For information, go to www.sandiego.edu/LIFE. March 31 2006 Grandparents Weekend This second annual event wel- comes USD grandparents to cam- pus for a weekend with students. Highlights include attending classes and a presentation show- casing the USD experience, as well as an undergraduate theater performance. Call (619) 260-4808. April 22 It’s a Miracle! Watch engineering students from around the region attempt the impossible — traversing the USD Sports Center pool at the annual Walk on Water competi- tion. Go to www.sandiego.edu/ engineering/events/wow. February 3 13th All-Faith Service

IN KYLE’S NAME Organizers plan to endow scholarship in memory of a chi ld by Kelly Knufken [ l e g a c y ]

T here’s no way around it: This story is heartbreak- ing. Michael ‘87 and Julie (Belfiore) ‘88 O’Connell lost their fun-loving son, 9-year-old Kyle, to brain cancer in February 2005. Several other alumni banded together to bring hope to others while honoring the family’s loss. “To have experienced such a beautiful little boy as Kyle, who gave us so much in such a short time, challenges us all to be bet- ter people,” says Rich Yousko ‘87, a fraternity brother and close friend of Michael’s. In that spirit, Yousko brought the family together with Braulio Castillo ‘89, a younger member of the same fraternity who wanted to start a scholarship. Thus, the Kyle O’Connell Memorial Scholarship was established,“so Kyle can always be remembered,”Yousko says. He recalls the boy’s inner strength on a visit he made to the O’Connells in Denver just weeks before Kyle’s death.“He could still tell us jokes and make us laugh. With his spirit and innocence, you could see Jesus through him.” Organizers hope to raise at least

$50,000 to endow the scholarship, which will go to a junior or senior pursuing a career in health studies. The aim is to help not only aspir- ing doctors, but also nurses and other caregivers that could play a role in trying to heal patients such as Kyle and their families. “As parents, we are so moved that a child has caused people to do something like this,” says Michael O’Connell. The family is deeply touched by the gen- erosity of spirit they’ve found. “Now our son has a legacy at USD, even though he didn’t get a chance to go there,” Julie O’Connell says. “USD is a small community that you always felt a part of, no matter where you were. During this time of strug- gle and hardship, we’re back to that small community wrapping its arms around us and helping us look toward the future.” To donate to the scholarship, go to https://secure.ga1.org/05/ocon- nell_memorial_scholarship. For more about the family’s journey, go to http://extranet.iqnavi- gator.com/kyle.

concrete wall. Halaka explains the wall was built by the Israeli army to punish the Hani Aamer family by separating the Palestinian farmer from both his village and his own farmland. “We enlisted a lot of kids and made do with what we had. The military harassed us.” Nonetheless, Halaka says it was worth it. “Art did provide hope,” he says. During the pro- ject’s genesis the previous sum- mer, the youngest children were afraid to even leave the house to see it. “But this year they came and helped us. It’s art as therapy.” Which isn’t to paint too rosy a picture: “Finally the Israelis told us that unless we left immediately, they’d confiscate (Hani Aamer’s) key to the only gate in or out of his property. So we never got to finish. “ Halaka plans to continue drawing attention to the conflict. “I’m working on a documentary about the Nasserallah family of Rafah. They hosted us during our time there.”They are also the family whose home volunteer Corrie was trying to protect when she was killed. But for now, Halaka must con- tent himself by working half a world away on the film, which he hopes to complete this year. “I think this work fits in well with the mission of the university,” he muses. “And now I’ve tasted their life, and not just on an intellectual level.”

PHOTO FROM THE O’CONNELL FAMILY

After losing their son Kyle, the family is setting up a foundation in his name to support pediatric brain tumor research.

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